Love & harmonious relationships are not just for the dream world ...

When I look at the people in my life, beyond my children ? it is those I have sat in meditation with that I have such deep connections.

There is something ?silent? about our relationship that allows a ?Knowing? of each other that cannot be fooled by the occasional displays of ego.

I ?feel? them whether they are physically present in my life or not, aware of their ?cries of help? ? constantly aware of the love I have for them that cannot be tainted. For there is something sacred that we share that could not ever have been explored or felt with words.

It was sitting in each other?s silence that allowed each of us to be ?seen?, it was in this silence we felt something stir in our hearts. It was silence that ?lit? this love.

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In tantra, it is suggested that lovers meditate together.? Now, I do not feel this brings to the relationship simply conscious & connected sex, I feel it ?allows? so much more than that ?

Meditating with a lover, simply drinking in each other?s presence may bring many harmonious benefits to a relationship. ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ??

There is a feeling of sacredness, for you have seen the other in all their innocence. You have seen, felt & shared your soul.? This brings safety & strength in being vulnerable, open ? a warm softness to the relationship.? Boundaries ? ?any need to protect begins to fall away.

There is a new expression to communication, for no words are required for there to be an understanding of the other.? So much more can be given, tasted & felt in the beauty of each other?s silence. This bond creates a knowing of each other?s needs for touch, love, space ? & how to ?meet? them.

In that ?Knowing? of the other, honesty to communication with words arises, for we know that the other has ?space? in their heart to listen & receive ? & that although words can be spoken that cause hurt, we trust in the love shared & know this hurt ?belongs to ?self?, that the other is lovingly giving us an?opportunity?for the?healing for our wounds. ?They are words that will assist us to no longer ?act? out of ego, patterns & the past with each other but from NOW & LOVE.

Being present together brings new, fresh eyes to the relationship for it is a relationship of NOW. ?We are ?seen in the moment? which is an?incredible?gift of love.

Meditating together forms deep bonds of trust & love as you open more & more to each other & unfold & grow together. The deeper the love is felt & shared, the more freedom is felt individually for there is a release of all that is not ?real? ?. An expansion of two minds, two bodies, a unity of two souls. ?I believe sharing this silence cam build strong foundations to any relationship, for no matter what is going on externally, a sense of harmony, unity & peace can be felt ?humming? softly beneath the dramas ? waiting to carry the both of you into a deeper understanding of self & each other.

Now, I also feel we do not have to sit cross legged on the floor together, or be in Yab Yum ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?

Just being silent while holding each other, breathing each other in & out in a circular breath or simply breathing together ? falling into each other, til there is no distance between you.

Allowing more conscious moments of touch ??caressing?with no?intention or agenda?for sex but just the simple pleasure of touching the other?s skin, smelling their smell.

Spending more silent time together, rather than feeling uncomfortable in the silence, desperately grabbing for words to say or the TV remote control ?. Just feeling, Being with the other.

Nature lives in perfect balance, flowing, moving, expanding, weaving in & out of all the cycles of the moon, the stars, the seasons ? all growing together, not apart.? This is our natural state of being.

Harmony, pleasure, connection, deep eternal &?unconditional?love, bliss, freedom ?

We sing about these things as if they belong only for our dreamtime.

We write poetry & love stories ??

But we can only dream these dreams, sing these songs, write these words because it lives as a potential within the heart of all us.

Source: http://www.inspiritess.com/2011/10/love-harmonious-relationships-are-not-just-for-the-dream-world/

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